How are you all?...finally we have some sunshine!! I hope you are all keeping busy and doing as much as possible in the sun
Last night I watched 'My Big Fat Fetish' on catch up as I heard quite a bit about it. In the society today, many are worried that people, especially children are seeing the 'size zero' as a sexy and healthy way to be. However, these women on this programme are big women who are happy witth their weight and some who want to get even fatter - known as gainers. This has become more and more popular with big women magazines and photo shoots. These women love their fat bodies and there are millions of men around the world who admire them and are willing to pay to watch them eat online.
These big women do online photo shoots, videos and live chat on webcam to their male fans. They have many admirers thatv often sent gifts and seem to be paid quite well. Most of the women on the programme seemed really happy with their weight which was great to see, however some of them wanted to gain even more weight as it pleased their partner or fans. My first question really is, do you think it is okay to gain weight like this is it makes you happy, regardless of what it may do to your health? and secondly, Should it be okay for men to encourage women and feed them so they gain so much weight for their own personal pleasures?
Now I personally have always been told to love who you are and be what makes you happy and if someone, like a partner, doesnt approve then tough! They should love you for the way you are! BUT the impression I got from these women, they were extremely happy with their weight and pleasing their partner, which is great to some respect. There was a couple that claimed their relationship is revolved around her weight and getting her bigger, the boyfriend gains sexual pleasure from her gaining weight and he regularly feeds her and rubs her belly and although Kitt admits gaining isn't normal, she believes it's better to live out her sexual drive than to repress it. I find really sad... do they not go out together and have fun as a couple without thinking about food and feeding her to get her bigger? It sounds like a 24/7 job to always be eating to gain that weight to please their partners!
Another lady used to be a gainer but once she reached 29 stone she decided to stop and work to maintain this weight instead which in a way is good for her but she still needs to consider what this current weight is doing to her health! However, there was a particular lady on the programme who admitted she had taken it too far. She weighed in at 44 stone which is shocking!! She claimed she just kept eating and eating to please her fans, one man even wants her to carry on gaining which I find unbelievable. She is now too heavy to walk unaided and lives as a semi-invalid; she's virtually immobile and requires 24/7 care from her son. Now, not only has she affected her own life she's affecting her sons too as she relys heavily on him to move about.
My concern for these women is their health! By gaining so much weight and for it to be done so quickly is worrying. I'm all for being happy with who you are but there is a limit and the limit is when it starts to affect your health! Are you really happy gaining so much weight to please others which eventually leads to staying in bed all day and getting bed sores as you are too big to move? Or gaining so much weight that you shorten your life?
I personally couldn't see myself doing this for anyone!...same goes for losing a load of weight for someone! If I wanted to do it for myself then I probably would, I am a big believer of what makes you happy go for it, but like anything, there should be a limit and I believe health is a major part of someones life, it is so precious and could be taken away from you in an instant! For most people, having good health is THE most important thing in order to have a good life. Therefore, I feel these women should really think about what they are doing and whether it is for themselves or others before getting into this type of 'job'!
For those of you who haven't seen 'My big fat fetish' I highly recommend a watch: http://www.channel4.com/programmes/my-big-fat-fetish/4od
Once you have watched, let me know your thoughts....
Have a great day
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